It took me until 31 to realize…I had no boundaries whatsoever.I mean …none .Letting actions that hurt me ,be over excused by one text or a sweet notion .Allowing my frustrations to explode because I felt that my voice wasn’t heard without showing my natural ,black (explicative) ! Also, having energy vampires around and supporting them through ups and downs . As you can see, this was a hot mess !
I knew that things had to change and it started with me ! What things do I like ? Do I really want to go to this club ?” They should be coming over here since they made me mad but let me just go !”..that’s When the magic happened !
Its something about when a woman comes into her inner Amazon and starts taking charge !!ITS A NO FOR ME ! If it doesn’t make me feel good ,NO .
Do I go above and beyond my comfort level ,NO.
If the bag is not secured or there is no luxury ,NO.
Will I have lunch or dinner with you just because we know each other but I don’t like your ways ,NO.
Taking my autonomy back was best decision I’ve made ! So, the takeaway away from this is ….
IF YOU DONT FEEL IT ..HELL NO!